Adijat, the alleged baby mama of popular Nigerian singer Ahmed Ololade, widely known as Asake, has spoken out amid ongoing family drama, accusing him of neglect despite her support during his early struggles.
In a viral post that surfaced on X (formerly Twitter), Adijat claimed she stood by Asake while he was in school, sending him money and offering financial support despite her limited means.
However, she alleged that after he completed his education and relocated to Lekki, he distanced himself from her and their child, making her feel as though she was forcing herself on him.
Recalling their strained relationship, she stated:
“When he was in school, the little I had, I sent to him. Even the contributions I made, I would collect and send to him. But after he finished from OAU and moved to Lekki, it became difficult to reach him or even see him.”
She further revealed that when she expressed her concerns about their lack of communication, Asake dismissed her, asking if that was what truly mattered.
“When I told him it had been long since we saw each other, he asked me if that was important. He started giving me attitude,” she added.
According to Adijat, when their child was about to turn five, her mother reached out to Asake to inform him that his father was troubling her. However, his response was disheartening.
“He said I was forcing myself on him and that my problems were too much. Later, he sent me messages saying he would block me. He told me I was free to marry someone else, as he had no time for a relationship.”
She tearfully recounted how their child turned six and seven with little to no support from him.
As the video spread across social media, concerned individuals flooded the comment section, sharing their opinions on the matter.
See some reactions below:
@FLACKO_VVS: “Before you judge, wait for Asake’s side of the story. His first response showed he didn’t want to talk much.”
@Akinomoosun: “All dis this woman dey talk na Gibberish, you call diswan neglecting? Person wey still dey pick call still request wetin una need? And una dey carry the matter like say na wen you give birth him don leave una like say Him go drop you for him papa house out of neglecting.”
@olushina65877: “Most guys neglected by their father always neglect their own kids too . Common.”
@Akinomoosun: “N b after him blow you and his papa collaborate to pressure him with money request ? This is one thing about Family issue. Na why he better once you grow to know right from left if you know ur family can’t sponsor you, just leave the house and struggle for yourself.”
@Justvibes31: “Na trauma of watin him papa do am, he dey do for him pikin so, I just dey talk my own sha.”
@Akinomoosun: “Una come dey claim Entitlement like say he is the the only Boy in the Family, same pikin wey dey traumatized with wetin him papa do am , he nvr did half to his own pikin una dey raise Bar ontop him , una no fea do am offline una com online drag am like say Social media is court.”
@samue34478: “This one na lie ooooo dem don leave themselves tay tay na d girl papa no gree make dem marry ooo.”
@cartsnglamsshop: “She no get talk, she should have remarried, she’s just somewhat hopeful or maybe didn’t like the person.”
